很(hěn)多(duō)小(xiǎo)夥伴在學(xué)習英語之後還是會遇到一個問題!那就是在簡單的How are you寒暄之後,不知道要如何keep the conversation going如何讓對話進行下去,并且讓對方感覺到自己是一個interesting or likable的人。
而不是一味的詢問How many people are in your family 或者Do you have brothers or sisters這樣家長(cháng)裏短尬聊的人。
今天就跟大家分(fēn)享幾種方式
1. 贊美在任何時候都是一個很(hěn)好的開場白。
但一定要be sincere and genuine真誠,找出對方的一個優點或者吸引你的地方。
比如:
I like your purse, it looks good on you!
Nice hairstyle, you totally rock it!
Your skin is so smooth, just like a baby's!
注意: 這裏不要誇類似于Wow, you have big blue eyes!
因為(wèi)一雙藍色的大眼睛是與生俱來,不需自己任何争取和努力的。借由真誠的贊美建立對方對你的好感,進而展開話題。
比如喜歡對方的身上所戴的物(wù)品可(kě)以追問:
Where did you get it?
My ... birthday is coming, I've been thinking about what to get for her.進而展開聊天。
對于對方本身所有(yǒu)的優點,也可(kě)以詢問愛好和生活習慣
比如:
What do you do to keep your skin/hair so smooth?
You're very tall, are you a basketball player?
You have strong arms, do you play any sports?
2. 出其不意的聊天方式。
比如:
下雪(xuě)天,你感歎:Wow, it's snowing. I love it!
對方肯定心裏會犯嘀咕産(chǎn)生好奇Why?進而你可(kě)以引出一些你的愛好。
比如: I enjoy skiing very much! And I can't wait to ski again! Do you ski?